Just because you are in a relationship with someone does not mean he is the right guy. In fact, the reason why there are so many break ups is because people are dating wrong guys. When you finally meet Mr. Right, you will wonder how blind you were dating those other guys. However, it is not too late, you can make it right just now. Allow me to paint the picture of the wrong guy then you will decide if your current guy fits in or not.
1. He is too self-centered
Every action in a relationship should be to the common good of both lovers. If your guy only thinks about himself and does things that are beneficial to him alone then he doesn’t deserve you. There are men who act selfish out of ignorance. Try to correct him or raise that issue. If he changes, well and good. If he does not, he is a wrong guy for you. You deserve to be with a man who treasures you and treats you as an equal.
2. You don’t see a future with him
Sometimes you are in a relationship and your gut tells you there is nowhere you are heading with this guy. Actually you do not see him anywhere in your future. If the thought of the future with him excites you, then he might be the right guy. Nevertheless, if the idea of having a future with him scares you, he is wrong for you. Be with someone who brings out the best in you. Someone you want to be with in this life and the life to come.
3. He never finds time for you
Let no one lie to you about being busy and busy and busy. People do not work all the time. A person who truly loves you will still find time for you. Depending on the nature of his work, there are circumstances that you will agree they are legit. But not always busy. If he tells you he is busy yet he is hanging out with friends, partying and clubbing then you are wasting your time. A man in love always wants to be around his girlfriend. He will want her besides him at every opportune moment.
4. He doesn’t keep his word
Promises whether small or big should be kept. Both parties should do that. There are instances where you fail to keep your word but your lover understands. However, you should not stick to a man who always fail to keep his word. Lies in relationships are usually because of lacking commitment. A right guy for you will do all in his powers to make you happy. He will only make promises he can keep and show a lot of efforts in fulfilling them.
5. He doesn’t see you as good enough
Am sure you already have your own insecurities and issues. You do not need someone to make you feel even more insecure. Being in a relationship means that you are with someone who empowers you. Someone who makes you feel perfect. A lover who brings out the best of you. You should be the best woman to him. Avoid someone who makes you feel worse. If he thinks you are not good enough, he is the wrong person for you. Just find someone your type; someone who knows your true value.